In August 2013, when I was days away from delivering Errol, my first of three children, and Debbie was pregnant with Zipporah, her third of three children, we started chatting on WhatsApp. Thousands of messages have been exchanged since then. We check in with each other nearly every day. Among the dependable “hi, morning, how r u, nites, sleep well, mwa,” major themes have emerged: The whereabouts and wellbeing of Naomi, our pregnancies, our kids, the failing health of our fathers, Debbie’s work, and Manenberg’s gang wars.
The chat transcript is also crowded with happy birthdays, pictures of our kids and dogs, holiday plans, doctor visits, bad days, and sleepless nights. Debbie sums it up nicely by saying we talk about, “everything, everything. She’ll tell me what’s happening that side and I’ll tell her what’s happening this side.”
A fraction of the text exchanges between Debbie and me are included in the upcoming Love from Manenberg book, providing intimate dialogue and a rare first-person account of life in Manenberg.
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